Is it bad to ask someone-

Wtf? Usually around here that's an invitation to let someone blabber on about how something amazing happened to them. Usually people around here don't ask if something good happened to someone but it's definitely not bad to ask that. And the most awkward question I have ever asked.... well... I'm not quite sure. I tend to forget things that have embarrassed me so I don't bring it back into mind again.

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Wtf? Usually around here that's an invitation to let someone blabber on about how
something amazing happened to them. Usually people around here don't ask if something
good happened to someone but it's definitely not bad to ask that.

@Kaneki Ah! Yeah! I thought that too but in the end I found out that saying it the way I did implys that they're usually in a bad mood... ;-;

Jebbika wrote

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Wtf? Usually around here that's an invitation to let someone blabber on about how
something amazing happened to them. Usually people around here don't ask if something
good happened to someone but it's definitely not bad to ask that.

@Kaneki Ah! Yeah! I thought that too but in the end I found out that saying it the way I did implys that they're usually in a bad mood... ;-;

Oh well that makes a lot of sense but social awkwardness can do that to you.. But if you do say it in a tense sounding voice it implies something different. The attitude in your voice can change the meaning of anything you say. For example if I say: "hey man" in a slightly high pitch it implies that youre happy to see them. But if I say it in a low pitch voice it would sound like I'm not happy to see them or I'm angry

Jebbika wrote

So, I'm a socially awkward person. I say things, and I mean well. But, often the things I say are apparently rude, and I just don't understand.

So I asked my friend recently, because the past month or so she'd been in a really nice, good mood. I said to her,
"Has something good happened recently? You're in a better mood than usual..." In a quiet voice. It seems that whenever I try to compliment someone I go quiet.

But for some reason, my guy friends around me looked shocked, and said it was really bad to ask someone that.
My friend, (the girl) seemed to be forgiving though and said,
"It's alright, I know you didn't mean it that way."

What way?! I don't understand?!

So, what's the most awkward question you've asked someone?
I don't really understand my situation from back then, but I'm sure some of you have funny stories to tell! 😃
Oh also, sorry if this is a trash post!

LOL, I know your feelings man, I don't even know what's wrong with it, until I looked at desu post, my friends even tell me that I should be careful with my words and i'm like wot?

Senka wrote

I accidently made a Hitler joke in front of my jewish friend, he didn't take it well.

Tired rn, if I think of anything else i'll edit the post.

Rofl, yeah, many people told Hitler joke in front of me and then they remember i'm Jewish, they usually apologize or goes very quiet

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While I'm not really a mean person, I tend to say things I'm well aware are bad to
 say to people that get on my bad side. I don't get to do that often, but when I
 do... well, the 'problems' are gone. From the most memorable... and yeah, they sure
 can be cruel. So rather avoid asking those. ^^;
To a suicidal person who happened to trigger me (and I assure you, there's only one
 possible way to trigger me, so you'd have to try hard): "When are you planning to
 die? If it's this month I won't be on your funeral as I'm rather busy."
To a friend on her period who took venting a bit too far: "You sure you're not leaking
 too much?"
I'll update if I remember some of the ones I didn't mean to say that sounded awkwardly.
 And I'm pretty sure there were quite a bit...

You're risk at society man, don't go outside, you should be illegalized to go outside xD

desu wrote
suicid3Panda wrote

@[deleted]  >>I had to have a colonoscopy.

LMAO you're an amazing character 🙂

hey man don't judge me

ah... no, sorry... i wasn't judging. i just like how open you are.

suicid3Panda wrote
desu wrote
suicid3Panda wrote

@[deleted]  >>I had to have a colonoscopy.

LMAO you're an amazing character 🙂

hey man don't judge me

ah... no, sorry... i wasn't judging. i just like how open you are.

yes, internet anonymity is great, isn't it